Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Why I hate Delusional People?

Delusional people are those who believe firmly into something that is either a lie or doesn’t exist. It doesn’t mean that what they are claiming is completely out of reality. A part of the situation could be true. For example; a person knows how to fix PCs and claims that he is the proud inventor of Windows. But we all know that the person who invented Windows was Bill Gates.

Delusional People aren’t liars. They are people with a psychological condition. Such illness could be caused by various things. Personality Complex, insecure environment, lack of parenting, having their time spend around a lot of fiction based literature… The patient could have been in one of these situations or in some cases all of them.

The reason they delusion is because they want to escape the realty. They aren’t ready to except the situation. If you are mixing delusion with confidence, then I need to clear you the difference right there. Now we all know that everyone goes through bad times, once in a while. Sometimes it’s so depressing that we create a fictional fortress around our personality. Our soul patches through the wounds, almost the same way as our body does. The fortress-building process works just like an anti-body. It’s a temporary condition that helps us carry on our way of life and live through the tragedy. The one that’s temporary is called, Courage/Confidence but the fortress that stays, even after we are recovered, develops into a delusion. Both Self-Confidence and Delusion, work the same way and has the same assignment. Eventually, the delusion gets harmful. The developing process is slow. Hence if we want to prevent the illness, we can by intruding at the right time.

Just like the most of the personality disorders, delusion is developed at the early age. Sometimes, it narrows down deep inside a person and hibernates until it’s provoked by a relevant incident. Thus a person may become delusional at a later age.

What harm could delusional people bring? As you must have understood by the above definitions, such person can be stubborn at its believing. So, no matter how hard you try to explain “Terry” that he didn’t invent Windows, he just won’t listen to you. Because what he believes is the reality according to him.

Now you must want to know why I hate them. Simple… they just make you feel that you are wrong. There’s even a time when you start thinking, you might be. But tell you what?! If a person is already having bad time with their mental-scars, doesn’t mean that you have to go through the pain too. Help such people, if you want to but don’t get your brain messed up. Your life deserves more charity by you than any other.